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\"couples<\/p>

Create an atmosphere that's conducive for\u00a0sensuality<\/a>, take things slow and let go (include soft light, candles, music, the works). Allow at least an hour and a half. In\u00a0privacy<\/a>, one takes care only of the other. The round trip will not be successful unless you take turns making each other feel good.<\/span><\/p>

DISCOVER STEP BY STEP<\/span> <\/h2>

Specifically, start with lying on your back, breathe deeply and relax. Take all your\u00a0time and be totally relaxed. As for him, let him\u00a0caress your\u00a0body gently and tenderly, for at least thirty minutes. Start by extremely slow caresses, then gradually vary the modes of touch, intensity\u00a0and\u00a0speed, staying very focused. Be creative and make sure he concentrates on what he\u00a0feels\u00a0at his fingers and under his hand. If he\u00a0makes this experience without interest or curiosity, you'll\u00a0feel it and cannot relax. You should\u00a0indicate your preferences and desires, whether in\u00a0a verbal or gestural manner. Just tell him whether you like what he's doing, so that he\u00a0knows his\u00a0Miss's\u00a0desires best, without taking offense to be 'controlled'.\u00a0While you\u00a0receive the attention, focus exclusively on his physical sensations. If he starts getting distracted, you\u00a0must gently refocus his thoughts<\/a> on the points you want touched. The goal is that you and your partner both reciprocate the\u00a0fun, relax, enjoy yourself and express what you like. If you feel your gestures become mechanical slow your pace and end it tenderly for the\u00a0time. Do the same\u00a0when roles are reversed.<\/span><\/p>

Exercise proposed by Carlotta Munier in Female sexuality: towards a fulfilling intimacy,<\/em> published by Le Souffle d'Or.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

Maureen Diament and Nur Syazana H.<\/em><\/p> ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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