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Honey<\/a>, tell me! \"Throughout my thirty five years of practice in marital therapy, the main gripe I have often heard from women about men is that they do not communicate enough and are not open to dialogue,\" says psychologist Yvon Dallaire.<\/p>

Author of 10 Strategies for Talking to Your Man: Successful Communication Between the Couple<\/em>, he explains in the slideshow above the pitfalls to avoid for better communication.<\/p>

Fabienne Broucaret and Nur Syazana H.<\/em><\/p> ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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