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You want to have sex<\/a> three times a week but he wants it only twice a month (or vice versa). He loves doing it in the morning, while you prefer the evening. You need to find a common ground. Transported by the desire to love and become one flesh, we sometimes forget an essential parameter; we are not alone in a couple<\/a>. Both parties differ in terms of their temperament, loving experience and personal history. He can like hot videos and you can prefer gardening ones. He can have a big libido <\/a>and want to do it every other evening, while you are satisfied doing it just once a month.<\/p>

Sooner or later, our beliefs about sex and feelings impact our everyday life. Sex should be a spontaneous and natural act (false); men think about sex more than women (false); if we are crazily in love with each other, we should want to do it at the same time (extremely false); and a reduction in desire does not mean our feelings have diminished (true). Pascal de Sutter<\/strong>, psychologist and professor of sexology, and Val\u00e9rie Doyen<\/strong>, sex therapist, explored these variations in levels of desire.<\/p>

Read more:<\/span> <\/h2>

Couples: We don\u2019t talk about sex the same way<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t have the same rhythm<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t have the same approach<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t like the same preliminaries<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t have the same sex drive<\/a><\/p>

Valerie Rodrigue<\/em><\/div>
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