{"id":342406,"date":"2015-02-09T08:38:53","date_gmt":"2015-02-09T00:38:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/uncategorized-hk\/couples-dont-have-the-same-sexual-approaches-342406.html"},"modified":"2015-02-09T08:38:53","modified_gmt":"2015-02-09T00:38:53","slug":"couples-dont-have-the-same-sexual-approaches","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/hk\/lifelove-hk\/coaching-lifelove-hk\/couples-dont-have-the-same-sexual-approaches-342406.html","title":{"rendered":"Couples: We don't have the same approach"},"content":{"rendered":"

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A direct or subtle approach - how to instigate your partner\u2019s desires?<\/p>

He likes the direct approach -\u201cI want you, let\u2019s go to bed<\/a>\u201d \u2013 with the appropriate gestures (hand on buttocks, breasts, and so on.). You would prefer a more subtle manner; for an SMS saying \u201cSee you later, light of my life\u201d, a furtive caress of the neck, a great atmosphere, candles, a glass of wine and so on.<\/p>

The advice: The advances should arouse the other\u2019s desire. \u201cPatience and no pressure are necessary\u201d explains Val\u00e9rie Doyen. \u201cIt is often the men who dash off the advances, because their desires <\/a>are linked less to the environment and atmosphere\u201d, states Pascal de Sutter. But this can also concern some women. Yet, with a partner who is looking for subtlety, it is better to vary the approaches, to alternate the direct and indirect methods (compliments, romanticism, affectionate gestures). The goal is to find what works best for your partner<\/a>.<\/p>

Read more:<\/span> <\/h2>

How to find sexual harmony with your partner?<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t talk about sex the same way<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t have the same rhythm<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t like the same preliminaries<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t have the same sex drive<\/a><\/p>

<\/span> <\/h2>

Valerie Rodrigue<\/em><\/p> ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Here's what you can do if the two do not approach sex in the same manner. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":173,"featured_media":68176,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_yoast_wpseo_metadesc":"You want it three times a week and he wants it twice a month - or the other way round. 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