{"id":342409,"date":"2015-02-09T08:18:51","date_gmt":"2015-02-09T00:18:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/uncategorized-hk\/couples-do-not-like-the-same-preliminarries-342409.html"},"modified":"2015-02-09T08:18:51","modified_gmt":"2015-02-09T00:18:51","slug":"couples-do-not-like-the-same-preliminarries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/hk\/lifelove-hk\/coaching-lifelove-hk\/couples-do-not-like-the-same-preliminarries-342409.html","title":{"rendered":"Couples: We don't like the same preliminaries"},"content":{"rendered":"

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What to do when he considers the preliminaries a well\u00a0thought\u00a0out scenario, while you dream only about novelty?<\/p>

He likes routine, and knows the geography of your body by heart. However, you want to have new adventures in the bedroom.<\/p>

The advice: \u201cAs for the advanced, it is better to use our imagination if we don\u2019t want to bore our partner. The variety and inventiveness is what will make the quality of the preliminaries, not the technique\u201d, summarises Pascal de Sutter. Aiming directly for the erogenous zones, after a small round of warm-up, could result in \u201cNot tonight honey\u2026\u201d Caresses given in an automatic mode are too predictable! Just because we know each other well does not mean we should always do the same thing; culminating as usual in the eternal missionary. Moreover, once we become bored in bed, we are going to opt increasingly for quick sex<\/a>. Is this what we dream for our relationship<\/a>? According to the moment and the mood, we can desire for some quick sex<\/a> but, at other times, it is also good to revisit the Kama Sutra, from A to X, or Z; especially if we don\u2019t feel as if we were in a performance test.<\/p>

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Read more:<\/span> <\/h2>

How to find sexual harmony with your partner?<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t talk about sex the same way<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t have the same rhythm<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t have the same approach<\/a>
Couples: We don\u2019t have the same sex drive<\/a><\/p>

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Valerie Rodrigue<\/em><\/p> ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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