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\"He had warned me: 'When I\u2019m no longer 100% in love with a girl, I leave'. I didn't listen to him or believe him, I just thought that he was a little afraid of love. He told me that, but his attitude said something quite different; he wanted to see me all the time, planned romantic dates<\/a>, babies and trips. I even found him a little too passionate, forcing me to switch organizations and my schedule in order to satisfy his authoritarian need to see me. Despite this excessive side, I liked him and we shared many common interests. And then one evening, there was no news from him. I called and left messages, but heard nothing for a few days. I even believed that something bad had happened to him until a mutual friend opened my eyes: he saw other women; he cheated on me<\/a>. He got excited and backtracked without warning. I already wasn't a particularly self-confident<\/a> person so this story weakened me profoundly. I recovered by changing my attitude to men: promises just commit those who believe in them...\"<\/p>

Read more in\u00a0our \"breakup\" report:<\/span> <\/h2>

Breaking up: Dumped without warning<\/a><\/p>

Breaking up: \"I secretly thought that he could bear everything\"<\/a>
Breaking up: \"Our lives drifted apart without me noticing\"<\/a><\/p>

Val\u00e9rie Rodrigue<\/em><\/p>

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