{"id":343720,"date":"2014-10-06T09:49:59","date_gmt":"2014-10-06T01:49:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/uncategorized-hk\/coup-de-foudre-comment-donner-ses-chances-au-conte-de-fee-343720.html"},"modified":"2014-10-06T09:49:59","modified_gmt":"2014-10-06T01:49:59","slug":"coup-de-foudre-comment-donner-ses-chances-au-conte-de-fee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/hk\/lifelove-hk\/coaching-lifelove-hk\/coup-de-foudre-comment-donner-ses-chances-au-conte-de-fee-343720.html","title":{"rendered":"Love at first sight: How to achieve a lasting fairytale love?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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In every relationship, we\u00a0risk suffering to some extent. And because with love at first sight, we would have jumped over all the obstacles sweeping past the flirting period, waiting and dreaming before the achievement, the risk of being deceived <\/a>is even bigger. This brilliant man, this trainer of big wild cats is just a simple\u00a0guy who lives with his small cat. \"Because love at first sight is instant, not\u00a0rough or\u00a0demanding, we often\u00a0have to step back and see things with hindsight. We can love crazily and immediately, but we should not\u00a0invent the\u00a0other person or project on him what he clearly is not. It is necessary to have this capacity not to stay completely taken by the\u00a0madness of the beginning,\u00a0and to know how to deactivate these mental images of idealized love,<\/a>\" explains\u00a0Dr Philippe Brenot, psychiatrist and couple therapist.<\/p>

In other words, we don't have to add romanticism to romance. The love should be enlightened and not blind. We bet on the unknown, but we should know how to keep a cool head (just the head) and to evaluate the risks (do not buy an apartment together immediately). \"It is necessary to be able to confront the reality and understand what this love at first sight meant for us,\" concludes trans-generational psychoanalyst Juliette Allais.<\/p>

Is it a personal crisis? A boring life with our spouse? A quest of the 'ideal' man? Being unable to resist an engineer who spends half of his life on an icebreaker in the North Pole, means that we look for sensational things. As long as\u00a0we do not expect\u00a0the impossible, we can enjoy the supernatural side of the meeting, the magic that comes with such encounter\u00a0which\u00a0soothes\u00a0the harsh reality of our\u00a0daily life. Although it might not\u00a0seem so at the beginning, this supernatural side of things could\u00a0create solid foundations; it is the thing that comforts us on those particulare blue days. Those \"Do you remember when we first met?\" conversations are worth a thousand efforts to (re)seduce each other. And this story on which nobody would have bet can evolve quietly towards the golden wedding anniversary<\/a>.<\/p>

Read more from\u00a0our 'love at first sight'<\/a> report:<\/span> <\/h2>

What kind of women are prone\u00a0to love at first sight?<\/a>
Why does love at first sight happen when we least expect it?<\/a>
Love at first sight: Couples tell us their stories<\/a><\/p>

Val\u00e9rie Rodrige<\/em><\/p> ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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