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Singles take note, Dating coach and author Sophie De Villenoisy has just released in French\u00a0a funny little how-to book, heart-warming and above all very useful. On the menu: advice on how to find the man of your life<\/a>, and to keep him. An ambitious project, we'll give you that! In it, we unearth simple tricks to set him up, but also a lot of positivity and a good mood that will boost your mental powers for sure ( and also your power of seduction<\/a>!) .<\/p>

The book is structured around four steps: to adopt a good mindset, to identify the ideal man, to manage the first date and the golden rules to make your love last forever. Beside the four attitudes to avoid for a first date, detailed in the slides above, we are offering you another juicy extract from the book ( yes, yes, we are kind and happen to know French!).<\/p>

The sentences to never utter during a first romantic date:<\/span> <\/h2>

\"I've been in therapy for ten years\"<\/p>

\" Wait, my mum's calling, I have to answer!\"<\/p>

\" You are disappointed, right? Admit that you are disappointed! Stand up for what you think! \"<\/p>

\" What is your astrology sign?\"<\/p>

\" It's funny, I thought that you were more muscular\"<\/p>

\"I am going to show you the picture of my dog\/cat, he\/she is too cute!\"<\/p>

\"I know the waiter very well, I always come here on\u00a0my dates!\"<\/p>

\"And exactly how much do you earn per month?\"<\/p>

\"I'm on long-term sick leave for depression<\/a>.\"<\/p>

\"I don't know why I came, it was a very bad idea!\"<\/p>

\"Do you think that I am too fat?\"<\/p>

\" No, no alcohol for me, I'm on antibiotics, I have a vaginal infection.\"<\/p>

\" Don't move, I'm taking a picture of you, I'm live tweeting our date for my followers.\"<\/p>

Fabienne\u00a0BROUCARET<\/em><\/p> ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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