{"id":344726,"date":"2014-06-26T12:55:22","date_gmt":"2014-06-26T04:55:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/uncategorized-hk\/i-love-him-i-the-leaves-344726.html"},"modified":"2014-06-26T12:55:22","modified_gmt":"2014-06-26T04:55:22","slug":"i-love-him-i-the-leaves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/hk\/lifelove-hk\/coaching-lifelove-hk\/i-love-him-i-the-leaves-344726.html","title":{"rendered":"Ending a relationship: 'I love him but I\u2019m leaving him'"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Sometimes we remain in a relationship<\/a> out of habit, comfort, love... But sometimes, feelings are not enough. When we are cheated on<\/a>, when we cannot align our world views, when we live with a workaholic<\/a>\u2026 staying with him at all costs is not necessarily the best solution, if we wish to thrive and be happy.<\/p>

Leaving the man you love?\u00a0According to psychotherapist Patrica Delahaie, \u201cit is a very common situation today.\u00a0Many breakups<\/a> occur while feelings are still there.\u00a0So taking this decision is difficult.\u201d We present the testimonies of Natalie, Charlotte, Chloe<\/strong> and Valerie<\/strong>.<\/p>

Continue reading our report \"Ending a relationship: \"I love him but I'm leaving him\":<\/strong><\/span> <\/h4>

Testimony: \u201cI was head over heels, and he was undecided\u201d<\/a>
Testimony: \u201cI broke up because of my love for him and for life<\/a>\u201d
Testimony: \u201cI left out of pride\u201d<\/a>
Testimony: \u201cMy decision was good for both of us\u201d<\/a>
Psychologist opinion: \u201cIn a relationship, you must prioritise yourself first\u201d<\/a><\/p>

Louise\u00a0ENRIQUEZ<\/em><\/p> ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bad timing, complicated situation, a lack of communication... any one of these reasons may compel us to leave the man we love \u2013 a difficult, but liberating gesture. 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