{"id":344731,"date":"2014-06-25T18:00:07","date_gmt":"2014-06-25T10:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/uncategorized-hk\/review-of-psy-in-torque-it-should-be-preferre-344731.html"},"modified":"2014-06-25T18:00:07","modified_gmt":"2014-06-25T10:00:07","slug":"review-of-psy-in-torque-it-should-be-preferre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariefranceasia.com\/hk\/lifelove-hk\/coaching-lifelove-hk\/review-of-psy-in-torque-it-should-be-preferre-344731.html","title":{"rendered":"Psychiatrist opinion: \u201cIn a relationship, you must prioritise yourself\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

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What drives you to leave a man you love?<\/span> <\/h2>

Patricia Delahaie:<\/strong> First, we must emphasize that this is a very common situation today.\u00a0Many breakups <\/a>occur while the feelings still exist.\u00a0So, this is a difficult decision to make, but we make it anyway because the relationship<\/a> does not suit us.\u00a0This may be because we are suffering \u2013 like a betrayed wife who can take it no longer. Sometimes there are issues of character \u2013 stinginess or mania \u2013 or behaviour \u2013 we can leave a man who lives only for his job, or because he is addicted to video games. We realize that to be in love, love all you need \u2013 but to thrive in a relationship, it takes a lot of other things: a shared world view, agreement on daily decisions, sharing...<\/p>

Do we always move towards the better?<\/span> <\/h2>

It is difficult, but leaving a man you love is to give yourself priority, and we deserve to do that!\u00a0In general, achieving this takes time, especially for women.\u00a0They love to love and will try everything before they finally make the cut.\u00a0It is only when they can say they have given every chance to the relationship and that nothing has changed that they leave.\u00a0Simply because they want happiness<\/a>.\u00a0This is quite pragmatic; they know they will be happier outside of the relationship.<\/p>

<\/span> <\/h2>

\"So you recommend to \"dare to prioritise yourself?\"<\/span> <\/h2>

Absolutely. Historically, women have been taught that they should make others happy.\u00a0It is a good thing to start thinking about their own happiness.\u00a0Not only is it legitimate to want to flourish, to think about yourself, but there is also a novelty today, you know you will be able to experience many love stories in life<\/a>.\u00a0And\u00a0leaving a man is to give yourself the opportunity to meet another.<\/p>

* Author of How to cure lovesickness (Leduc.s Editions).<\/em><\/p>

Continue reading our report \"Ending a relationship: \"I love him but I'm leaving him\"<\/a>:<\/strong><\/span> <\/h4>

Testimony: \u201cI was head over heels, and he was undecided\u201d<\/a>
Testimony: \u201cI broke up because of my love for him and for life<\/a>\u201d
Testimony: \u201cI left out of pride\u201d<\/a>
Testimony: \u201cMy decision was good for both of us\u201d<\/a><\/p>

Louise\u00a0ENRIQUEZ<\/em><\/p>

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