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There are a lot of expressions that are able to highlight or betray our statements \u2013 \u201cThe gaze is a tool of the eyes,\u201d says neurobiologist Jean-Didier Vincent. Studies have also shown that not only do our pupils dilate spontaneously to something that interests us directly, but also before a person whose pupils are dilated. We decipher four common signals to better understand how our eyes \u201cspeak\u201d<\/a>.<\/p>

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