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Chinese New Year<\/a> is almost here and although there's plenty food<\/a>, friends and fun to look forward to, one thing you might not be eagerly anticipating is all the relatives\u00a0<\/a>- particularly those 'difficult' ones.<\/p>

(Let's be real, every family has its fair share of drama sometimes.)<\/p>

Sure, you love your family, and you are looking forward to seeing them, but you just know there is that one auntie that is going to ask you about whether you're still doing that job<\/a> they think won't get you anywhere, comment on your parenting skills, gossip to you about another relative of yours, or why you still don't have a partner<\/a>\u00a0- yikes!<\/p>

If you're lucky enough that this never ever happens, then please, we beg of you; share your secrets! If not, like most of us, scroll through our expert tips to keep in mind on how to best deal with difficult relatives over the festive period. These will definitely ensure you're prepared for all the family drama this CNY.<\/a><\/p>

Shelina Assomull<\/em><\/p>

Photos: Getty Images<\/em><\/p>

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