Holidays: How to survive without my other half?
updated the 28 August 2015 à 07:02How to manage the summer separation from you lover? Here are our tips.
You are propelled into the universe to erase SMS, Sioux tricks to scrape together one hour and butterflies in the stomach over 14 and a half years. Suffice to say that the summer separation glue you a sacred bell and you ask yourself: 1. How to maintain the connection. 2. How not to stop while on holiday with your whole family, looking into space and desiring to be elsewhere?
The advice of Violaine Gelly, psychopraticienne and sex therapist: “We can see in the absence of the lover the opportunity to take stock. The distance will allow to evaluate the place you give him and whether this story is important or not. Maybe what you considered as a mere distraction has more at stake than that. Or, conversely, the remoteness shows you that what you took a flash in the pan for a burning passion. Then, this absence also offers you the opportunity to revisit our relationship. For my part, I think we do not initiate a connection the spouse but because of an inner lack. So precisely, let us ask ourselves what is lacking in our marriage: freedom, lightness, sexuality? The holidays can be the perfect time of implementation of new rules …”
Josephine Lebard and Nur Syazana H.
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