‘Money Dates’: An alternative date night idea essential for a healthy marriage
updated the 30 November 2017 à 17:56Make this is another date night for you and your partner.
Can you recall the last time you and your partner sat face-to-face and thoroughly discussed your financial goals – without any hostility and anger that money issues tend to incite?
If no, it’s high time you start.
A 2016 survey of 500 Singaporeans found that one in three of them feel that their partners upset them at least once a week, arguing quite often, with some admitted that the arguments often led to verbal abuse.
What do they fight about? As it turns out, their children (46%); followed by money (41%).
So… What Are ‘Money Dates’?
The fact that money can be a huge point of friction and contention in the household is just the tip of the iceberg why it’s essential to designate time to talk about money together – also known as ‘money dates’.
Money dates are, in essence, all about ensuring that your money is going towards what is important to you and your partner as a couple. They are check-ins that allow you to take a step back time and again to assess what’s financially working for you and what’s not.
Browse the gallery above to see how you can effectively organise your money dates, what to discuss when you take your partner on one, and how to address emotionally-charged situations in a healthy, rational manner.
Sarah Khan
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