Couples: We don’t like the same preliminaries
updated the 14 July 2015 à 18:32Here’s what you can do to spice up your libido while maintaining a healthy relationship.
What to do when he considers the preliminaries a well thought out scenario, while you dream only about novelty?
He likes routine, and knows the geography of your body by heart. However, you want to have new adventures in the bedroom.
The advice: “As for the advanced, it is better to use our imagination if we don’t want to bore our partner. The variety and inventiveness is what will make the quality of the preliminaries, not the technique”, summarises Pascal de Sutter. Aiming directly for the erogenous zones, after a small round of warm-up, could result in “Not tonight honey…” Caresses given in an automatic mode are too predictable! Just because we know each other well does not mean we should always do the same thing; culminating as usual in the eternal missionary. Moreover, once we become bored in bed, we are going to opt increasingly for quick sex. Is this what we dream for our relationship? According to the moment and the mood, we can desire for some quick sex but, at other times, it is also good to revisit the Kama Sutra, from A to X, or Z; especially if we don’t feel as if we were in a performance test.
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Valerie Rodrigue
