7 Days to make him crack: Here’s how to seduce your man

updated the 14 July 2015 à 18:35

Your love life is not going so great? You and your man seem to be drifting apart? Don’t worry – Take a look at how to reignite the passion and seduce your man in a week.

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DAY 1: shake things up

Okay, so your man does not even say to you “Hello madam, do we know each other?” when you pass him in the living room, nor is he lining up with triple somersaults. Why? Because after five, ten, fifteen or more years of sharing the washing machine, you have officially become part of the furniture. Yes, just like those IKEA shelves you were both ecstatic about at the beginning – “Really great for the price!” – your other half finds it normal for you to always be there when he gets home in the evening. Hence the urgent need to remind him that nothing is ever won. How? Precisely by moving that IKEA about. And do the same with the couch, the coffee table, because the change in the household results in the awakening of the libido, in the same way chicken is to chicken rice – an essential ingredient.

DAY 2: TANTALIZE HIM

There you go, your baby is intrigued. And now most would be tempted to switch immediately into sex beast mode. Fatal error! Imagine the scene: you enticing him with a new corset, and him in his Bugs Bunny briefs wondering if it is Mardi Gras. You must play it sharp. Yesterday, you moved the furniture, and today you move yourself and try changing positions…between you both. The idea is to go to bed first and take his place under the duvet, looking at him right in the eyes and murmuring, “there, the roles are reversed…” There is no need to say more. Every single time, your man will take you in his arms. Know how to resist; even if you are not the type to sleep the second night.

DAY 3: TEASE HIM

Because a radiant woman creates envy, but also piques his curiosity, treat yourself to a haircut, heels, the famous corset, and leave him hanging. Especially the corset, in fact, makes sure you carelessly leave it on the bed. The issue is not only him asking himself when it will make an appearance (and what will happen when it does), but also that he will beg you to put it on. Note that the male mind works visually, this is why such a thing works to make him (re)open his eyes.

DAY 4: MAKE HIM MAD

Here, the operation is delicate because it is to remind him how lucky he is to have you. In this respect, an external helping hand never hurts. Yes, we are talking about going out, flirting, but only light attention, not relying too much on Barney Stinson moves – just have a little fun! Maybe a cute text to your bronze-skinned accountant, or a Facebook message to that blonde guy at the gym, just to revive your capital of seduction. The effects of such moves should be enough to wake the predatory instincts of your domestic Tarzan.

DAY 5: CALM HIM

Apply a well-known police technique: After hot, comes the cold. Now that he is aware of the danger (the brown or the blond, or even both…), reassure him by creating a favourable environment. In the course of one evening, turn your home into a cosy cave, lit with candlelight (it goes without saying that you switch off the TV), with an animal skin or plaid rug thrown across the floor for a massage session…with nothing talking other than the hands.

DAY 6: BRING HIM TO A BOIL

By this point, normally, your man will have regained his sight. Take the opportunity to plunge him into the dark, blindfolded, and here, for once, use your voice. Ask him to describe, for example, your hairstyle, the clothes you wear… If he is unable to do so, helping him to guess via touch is so much more effective than a plaintive wail of “you did not even realise that I had been to the hairdresser!” More efficient, fun and erotic, as you will see.

DAY 7: ENJOY, IT’S READY

There we go, is he devouring you with his eyes yet? Now it is your turn! The more your man is feeling watched, the more he will look at you. And now, all of a sudden, ask for everything you want, and gaze deep into his eyes and tell him exactly what you think of his torrid glances…

Louise Enrique

Read more relationship advice on Marie France Asia:

– 9 Keys to re-ignite the passion in your relationship
– 4 Tips to stimulate desire in the bedroom
– Relationships: Understanding and preventing emotional co-dependency


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